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Do you constantly seek approval and affirmation?
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Do you fail to recognize your accomplishments?
•
Do you fear criticism?
•
Do you over extend yourself?
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Have you had problems with your own compulsive behavior?
•
Do you have a need for perfection?
•
Are you uneasy when your life is going smoothly, continually anticipating
problems?
•
Do you feel more alive in the midst of a crisis?
•
Do you still feel responsible for others, as you did for the problem drinker
in your life?
•
Do you care for others easily, yet find it difficult to care for yourself?
•
Do you isolate yourself from other people?
•
Do you respond with fear to authority figures and angry people?
•
Do you feel that individuals and society in general are taking advantage of
you?
•
Do you have trouble with intimate relationships?
•
Do you confuse pity with love, as you did with the problem drinker?
•
Do you attract and/or seek people who tend to be compulsive and abusive?
•
Do you cling to relationships because you are afraid of being alone?
•
Do you mistrust your own feelings and the feelings expressed by others?
•
Do you find it difficult to identify and express your emotions?
•
Do you think parental drinking may have affected you?
is for families, relatives and friends whose lives have been affected by someone else's drinking. Many adults
question whether they have been affected by alcoholism. If someone close to you has, or has had a drinking problem, the
following questions may help you in determining whether alcoholism affected your childhood or present life, and if Al-Anon
is for you.
“When anyone anywhere
reaches out for help, let the
hand of
Al-Anon/Alateen always be
there and let it begin with
me”
Al-Anon
is for families, relatives and friends whose
lives have been affected by someone else's drinking. Many
adults question whether they have been affected by
alcoholism. If someone close to you has, or has had a drinking
problem, the following questions may help you in determining
whether alcoholism affected your childhood or present life, and
if Al-Anon is for you.
•
Do you constantly seek approval and affirmation?
•
Do you fail to recognize your accomplishments?
•
Do you fear criticism?
•
Do you over extend yourself?
•
Have you had problems with your own compulsive behavior?
•
Do you have a need for perfection?
•
Are you uneasy when your life is going smoothly, continually
anticipating problems?
•
Do you feel more alive in the midst of a crisis?
•
Do you still feel responsible for others, as you did for the
problem drinker in your life?
•
Do you care for others easily, yet find it difficult to care for yourself?
•
Do you isolate yourself from other people?
•
Do you respond with fear to authority figures and angry people?
•
Do you feel that individuals and society in general are taking
advantage of you?
•
Do you have trouble with intimate relationships?
•
Do you confuse pity with love, as you did with the problem drinker?
•
Do you attract and/or seek people who tend to be compulsive and abusive?
•
Do you cling to relationships because you are afraid of being alone?
•
Do you mistrust your own feelings and the feelings expressed by others?
•
Do you find it difficult to identify and express your emotions?
•
Do you think parental drinking may have affected you?
“When anyone anywhere
reaches out for help, let the
hand of
Al-Anon/Alateen always be
there and let it begin with me”
Al-Anon
